Confession: ''I Am 24 And I Have Aborted 8 Times For The General Manager Of A Popular Radio Station'

It was one bright Friday morning at Finniky Restaurant, where we were having our jaw-jaw over the many activities of Reality Entertainment, publishers of your darling newspaper, Airwaves Watch.

At first, I did not know if it was the face of the Editor-in-Chief, Kazeem Popoola, or the name, which one of the familiar faces around shouted aloud that caught the attention of this pretty lady, who sat at the far corner of the restaurant. 

All I could recollect was that she walked towards our table and introduced herself to the EIC as one of the great followers of his entertainment pages in one of the daily newspapers and also quipped to have seen him on TV a couple of days back talking about a seminar and football match organized in honour of late Ambassador Olusola.

The lady requested to see Kazeem in camera. The request left me and other crew members giggling in jealousy. But when Kazeem returned, I was informed to prepare for an interview session with her the next day. As a rookie in the print media, I was nervous and ignorant of what to ask the lady. Aside that, I asked myself why an interview with somebody who is not a celebrity? Surprisingly, the 30 minutes interview with Ada (not real name) turned out to be a mind-blowing and a great lesson for aspiring broadcasters who are desperately in need of a place for Industrial Training (IT).

In this exclusive interview, the University of Ibadan Mass Communication graduate opened up on how her naiveté turned her into a sex toy for a popular Radio station general manager.

How did it happen?

(Pauses)…I have been living with this pain for quite a while and anytime I see young girls scrambling to get a place at a TV, Radio or even print media for Industrial Training (IT), I yearn to have an opportunity of sharing my experience so they could learn and act wisely. And I thank God for this medium, and I hope this will be published because all my effort in the past was frustrated. A couple of years ago, 2010 to be precise, after my 300 level in school, I was due for an IT, so I decided to come to Lagos to search for a TV or radio station where I can do the compulsory training.

I tried for some months but getting a place proved difficult. It was in the course of the search that I met this (pointing to a picture in her hand) General Manager of a popular radio station located on Island at an eatery on the mainland. I grabbed the opportunity of telling him my problem. He asked me to come over to his office the next day. I was so happy that I couldn’t hold back my joy because my instinct told me I have gotten a place for my IT.

On getting to his office the next day, I got the shock of my life when he told me point blank that I have to sleep with him before he could allow me to have the training in the station. He even put the icing on the cake with a promise to offer me a job after graduating from the university.

I initially declined his request but I eventually obliged after considering my plight and the difficulty in getting a place for the IT.

He took me to a hotel somewhere close to the station, and this later turned to our love nest. Apart from regular visits to the hotel, which he referred to as his slaughter house, we often made love in his office, car, and toilet or anywhere at any time he wanted to satisfy his sexual appetite.

It became a normal routine for me because I was enjoying it and when he later proposed that I should marry him I was very happy, not minding whether he is married or not.

If I had known that my decision would hunt me for life, I wouldn’t have done it (sobs…). At 24 years old, I have had eight abortions! Only God knows if I can bear a child in future. Anytime I missed my period, he cajoled me into having an abortion, saying it’s against his creed, which is having a child outside wedlock.

I should have seen the handwriting on the wall two months to the completion of my IT, when he instructed the security men not to allow me into the station’s premises again. I was shocked and all attempts to get him on telephone were futile. He refused to pick my calls.

Why?

I became pregnant after fifth abortion and I told him that I am keeping the baby for real.

Don’t you have a boyfriend before meeting him?

I did but dumped him after I started dating the station manager

How far with the pregnancy?

I aborted it a few months after

Did he pick your call later?

Yes, he did but I don’t know who told him that I have gotten rid of the pregnancy. We settled it and everything went on fine again, and I had three abortions for him after we reconciled. However, couple of months ago he just sent me a text that he’s no longer interested in the relationship.

It’s quite obvious that it’s lover’s affairs….

No, (Shouting…) I later found out that he has been sleeping with other IT students and some of the female staff. Why he kept me for that long beat the imagination of those in the know of our love escapade. ‘Shebi’ you are a lady? I wish you could feel my pain and what other IT students may be going through.

Would you like to revenge all what was done to you?

I believe and all I can say is “vengeance belongs to God”. I leave everything in HIS hands and allow HIM fight for me. But would like to tell every young and desperate girl out there to be careful and learn from my mistakes. I would have asked you to publish his picture and name of the station he’s working for but I don’t want to pay evil with evil. But if he refuses to change, I will be left with no option than to expose him.

What if he crawls back to you?

I don’t think so, it’s over 10 months now that we broke up and I learnt he has two kids from two women.

What are you doing at the moment?

I am currently doing my Youth Service at one of the TV stations in Lagos

Again?

(Laughs) Not what you are thinking. I am wiser now and the reason I am even talking is that victims like me increase everyday. It’s time to stop sexual abuse of young girls in both print and electronic media. This is a cause I would like to champion soon.

Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian deny charity fraud accusations

Khloe Kardashian’s hoopster hubby is slapping down accusations he faked out fans with his charity Cathy’s Kids.

According to ESPN, the foundation that Lamar Odom started in 2004 after his mom died of cancer hasn’t given a dime to cancer causes despite its stated mission to do so.

The charity already has raised more than $2 million, ESPN said, but its work so far amounts to some $1.3 million spent on youth basketball teams, the sports network reported.

Eight years of tax records show the rest of the money went to cover they charity's expenses, an investigation by ESPN’s “Outside the Lines” found.

“It is unfortunate that Lamar Odom has been the target of an attack on athletes' charities, although he has personally contributed approximately $2.2 million to his foundation,” Odom’s reps said in a statement to the Daily News.

The reps underscored the fact that the charity's second stated goal is the funding of programs for inner-city youth.

”The millions of dollars personally contributed by Lamar constituted more than 90% of the money raised by the foundation,” the statement said. “All of the funds donated by Lamar and the other contributions to Cathy's Kids were used for one of the foundation's intended charitable purposes. Not one penny went to help Lamar personally or any member of his family.”

ESPN took issue with Odom’s charity as part of an investigation of athlete charities released Sunday.

The sports network posted the charity’s tax returns online and said it failed to fulfill its public promise to support cancer-related research, clinics and education.

Indeed, an eBay store fronted by Kardashian and Odom claims that all auction items sold from their personal collections “benefit Cathy’s Kids, a Lamar Odom foundation.”

The personalized eBay site says the NBA forward created the tax-exempt charity to help innercity kids as well as fight “a disease that has played a significant role in his life, cancer.”

“Lamar lost his mother to stomach cancer and subsequently is committed to help causes that are focused on finding a cure and helping people who suffer from the disease,” it states.

According to ESPN, the only paid executive for Cathy’s Kids was Jerry DeGregorio, Odom’s high school coach and the best man at his wedding to Kardashian.

As secretary of the noprofit from 2004 through 2011, DeGregorio made a median annual salary of about $72,000.

When “Outside the Lines” confronted Odom about Cathy's Kids in a locker room after a game, the Clippers player reportedly “became visibly upset.”

He later apologized for the scene but still didn’t answer questions about his charity, ESPN said.

The IRS audited Cathy’s Kids for its “most active five-year period” from 2005 to 2009 and “its exempt status was upheld,” a recent letter sent to ESPN by a lawyer representing Odom and Cathy’s Kids reportedly said.

The charity’s income and deductions were not challenged, the later stated.

Woman drowns her two young children before taking own life

The wife of a Minnesota National Guardsman drowned her two young children before taking her own life in a tragic murder-suicide, authorities said Tuesday.

The bodies of 35-year-old Stephanie Shields, 7-year-old son Nolan and daughter Josephine, 6, were found by an unidentified family member inside their Zimmerman, Minn., home on Easter Sunday.

Guard member Sgt. 1st Class Mark Shields had moved out of the house within the last week, Sherburne County Sheriff Joel Brott told the St. Cloud Times. 

Autopsies of the children reveal Nolan and Josephine died from freshwater drowning, the sheriff’s office said. Toxicology tests on their mother are still pending.

"We're a small-town family, and one of our families lost some loved ones," Zimmerman Mayor Dave Earenfight said. "We're mourning and we'll be praying for them."

Students at Zimmerman Elementary School, where Nolan and Josephine attended, returned from spring break on Tuesday.

"Josephine Shields and her brother, Nolan, were part of our Zimmerman Elementary School family and we are deeply saddened," Principal Susan Johnston told Fox 9 in Minneapolis.

Mark Shields, the father of both children, has served in the Minnesota National Guard since 1989, deploying "in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom from Sept. 2004 to Nov. 2005," according to a statement.

Basket Ball Legend Magic Johnson's son comes out Gay, Goes public with boyfriend (LOOK)

The NBA superstar's son Earvin Johnson III was spotted on the Sunset Strip in Los Angeles walking hand in hand with his boyfriend last week — and Johnson and his wife could not be happier.

"Cookie and I love EJ and support him in every way," Johnson told TMZ.

"We're very proud of him."

The father-son duo seem to have a very close knit bond as EJ told the gossip site that he has been "hoping and praying" for Los Angeles Dodgers ever since last spring when Johnson and his business partners took over the baseball franchise.

Although EJ was photographed out and about in L.A., he is currently a student at New York University.

Back in August, Magic has tweeted about a night with out with his son, "Thx to my son EJ for hosting me at NYU. Look forward to taking him to dinner tonight in the city."

Man sacrifices girlfriend because her zodiac sign is Taurus

Strange things that people do! So many mad people walking around, looking like normal people.

Read the full story of a 22 year old man who beat his girlfriend with a console and stabbed her to her death because her zodiac sign is Taurus.  

Darrius Johnson admitted to killing his girlfriend, Monica Gooden, after finding out she was a Taurus. He said she needed to be “sacrificed” because of her Zodiac sign.

“He told investigators that he decided he needed to do the sacrifice based on the Taurus sign,” said Lauderhill Police Lt. Mike Butkus.

The 23-year-old Gooden was found dead with multiple stab wounds in the home she shared with Johnson in Lauderhill, Florida.

In addition to stabbing Gooden, Johnson used an Xbox gaming console to beat her.

After killing Gooden, Johnson went to a nearby apartment and attacked a random old lady. The elderly woman’s nephew saved her, stabbing Johnson in the process before he fled.

Police caught up to Johnson and asked where his girlfriend was.

“She’s in heaven,” he replied.

To make matters worse, Gooden’s November birthday didn’t actually make her a Taurus.

Three knives were recovered from the scene as well as a Xbox system covered in blood that had been used in the attack.

Police suspect she was asleep during the attack as she did not have any defensive wounds.

Gooden was enrolled at Broward College pursuing an arts degree.

“I never in a million years would dream that this would happen to my first grandchild, and I’m still trying to figure it out,” said her grandmother, Mamie William.

Johnson and Gooden had a history of arguing.

Johnson is being held at Broward County jail after being charged with first degree murder.

Chris Brown Shouts Out Wizkid On 106th And Park And Credits Nigeria For The ''Azonto'' Dance

Chris Brown Shouts Out Wizkid On 106th And Park And Credits Nigeria For The "Azonto" Dance

4 Things Men Do That Turn Women Off In Béd

Are you to blame for her lack of lust?

We asked several séx experts to shed light on the worst things you do around the house and in béd that turn her off. Vow to never commit the following mood-killers again and your séx 

+life will suffer no more.

1. Ignoring Her Appearance

Guys in long-term relationships tend to stop noticing when their partner looks pretty, and so much of female séxual desire is tied to a sense of self-esteemThe fix here is simple: Pay her a few simple compliments every day, like letting her know she’s séxy.

2. Putting Her Under Pressure

Don’t worry or question her about getting orgasms. Stay relaxed and focused on playful touching. This means no performance pressure on either of you. Let whatever happens happen in its own time—or not. Good séx is about connection and sensual satisfaction, not number of orgasms produced. And here’s a nice added benefit to staying calm: The relaxation is good for erections.

3. Using Porn As a Benchmark

It’s good to keep the séx hot—but it’s more important to keep it real. In other words, forget that cool move you caught on XTube. Just because you saw a séxual practice in a film doesn’t mean it’s safe or satisfying.  And it might not even be something she’s into. If you need extreme stimulation to perform with a partner, you may want to cut back on overstimulation. A desensitized brain can also find séx less arousing. As you restore your brain to normal sensitivity, regular séx behaviors become enjoyable again. Time to rediscover the wonders of the missionary position.

4. Leaving Her Lips Hanging

As men get comfortable in a relationship, their approach to foreplay tends to focus on the moments leading up to séx. But female desire doesn’t operate like a light switch that turns on and off—it’s more like a dimmer. Small acts of intimacy like hugging and kissing can get her in the mood. But don’t get antsy: Don’t expect her to be immediately turned on.

I'm still in love with Jim Iyke' - actress Stephnora Okere confesses

Actress Stephnora Okere and Jim Iyke dated for a while many years back and according to an interview she granted Stella Dimoko Korkus in this week's Encomium magazine, she's still in love with him. Excerpts from the interview:

"I've been maintaining a low profile because of the fact that I wanted to re-arrange myself for the future having made one or two mistakes in the past.

SDK: "What mistakes are you referring to? As an actress or your personal life?"

Stephnora: "Both. First as an actress, I allowed myself to put on weight and that is not good for the kind of profession I'm in. When I gained weight, I lost a lot of offer for movie roles. My personal life mistake concerns my involvement in a marriage process that never scaled through. I got involved with someone with someone who doesn't understand what the word love means. It took me being involved in that relationship to realise what true love really means. It made me realise that I had loved and still do love someone else."

SDK: Who exactly are you referring to that you still love?

Stephnora: I still love Jim Iyke

SDK: Wow, that's some revelation. I am sure even Jim Iyke will be shocked to read this. He must have impacted on you strongly.

Stephnora: Jim was and is still the best friend I've ever had. He was not just around, he was there as a friend, brother, lover, companion. He was always there. He understood me.

Boy kills and robs his grandfather so he can buy tattoos, shoes and a phone

A Chicago 19-year-old fatally shot his namesake, his 72-year-old grandfather, and robbed him so he could buy tattoos, shoes and a cellphone, police said.

William Strickland allegedly shot the elder William Strickland six times in the back after the man left his home to catch a van service to his dialysis appointment. The elderly man died just steps from the South Side home he shared with his greedy grandson, neighbors told the Chicago Sun-Times.

The younger Strickland had no criminal record but is an admitted gang member. The teen is seen with several neck tattoos in his mug shot. The only word visible on his black T-shirt is “lazy.”

Friday’s arrest came nearly a month after the heinous crime. Police said the semiautomatic handgun used in the crime belonged to the elder Strickland. The younger man allegedly stole the gun and turned it on his grandfather for the man’s wallet, police said.

Strickland was charged Friday with first-degree murder and armed robbery with a handgun. The teen was denied bond.

It is not known how police were led to the teen.

Family and friends told the local paper the elderly man had just retired after 30 years of working at a steel mill and cared enough for his teenage grandson to offer him shelter.

“I just know that he stayed there,” neighbor Mario Farmer said about the grandson. “I would have never expected it. That’s sad. That’s really sad.”

Chris Brown: 'I lost everything'

On Monday, April 1, Chris Brown said ‘I lost everything’ following his violent assault on Rihanna a few years ago. It’s one Brown’s most direct responses to questions about the 2009 incident that changed both the lives of Brown and Rihanna.

Speaking to Matt Lauer on TV’s “Today” show, Chris Brown got very open and honest about how his life has been altered following his assault on Rihanna.

Admitting that he has been humbled by the situation, the 23-year-old R&B singer told Lauer the following today on television:

"I've been humbled by the whole experience," Brown, 23, told Lauer. "From me losing everything, you know, to me having to regain public opinion or whatever it is -- but most importantly, you know, knowing that what I did was totally wrong and having to kind of deal with myself and kind of forgive myself in the same breath and being able to apologize to, you know, Rihanna and be that man that can be who is a man, you know?"

Brown and Rihanna have recently been linked together, as paparazzi have spotted the couple and snapped pictures of the R&B stars.

Directly addressing his relationship with Rihanna now—who Brown was ordered away from years ago by a judge—Chris says that “everything’s good.”

Despite Brown and Rihanna having been involved in music for years, they’re both quite young. While Brown is just 23-years-old, Rihanna is also only 25.

For more on the Chris Brown: 'I lost everything' story, be sure to return to this column later today.

MEET Kenya’s Kim K, Vera Sidika (HOT PHOTOS)

Sidika, known as Vee S Beiby is apparently Kenya’s very own Kim Kardashian..

She has been featured in music videos of top artists like Prezzo and currently P Unit ‘YOU GUY’ video. Rocked runways as a plus size model as well as glamorous photo shoots with top designers in the industry.

Vee S. Beiby is a student, model,entrepreneur and socialite. She is the first of three children and the only girl.

Everyone in Kenya is going crazy about her Shape 

Facebook To Launch Phone --- Will You Be Buying It?

Facebook fueled fresh talk Friday about its own mobile phone after the leading social network scheduled a press announcement for next week.

Shortly after the Facebook invitation went out for the April 4 event, the technology news site TechCrunch reported the announcement would be a modified version of the Google Android operating system with “deep native Facebook functionality.”

Another report on “9 to 5 Google” said Facebook designing the software for the new smartphone, which would be made by Taiwan’s HTC.

Facebook’s invitation said only “Come See Our New Home On Android.”

The reports, if accurate, could explain the long speculation about a “Facebook phone” to help the social network better monetize its mobile platform by featuring Facebook prominently on the phone.

Facebook has long held firm it has no intention of building its own smartphone, saying instead it would rather weave access to the social network into software running the gamut of handsets.

News of the April 4 event at social network’s main campus in the Silicon Valley city of Menlo Park came as the research firm IDC released a Facebook-backed study showing that smartphones have become people’s close friends in the US.

US smartphone owners tend to be connected from the instant they rise until they fall sleep and revel in every minute of it, according to the study.

A weeklong IDC survey of more than 7,000 people ranging in age from 18 to 44 years old with iPhones or Android-powered smartphones showed that four out of five check their handsets within 15 minutes of waking.

The top three applications used were for messaging; Web browsing, and Facebook, in that order, according to IDC.

“People have a universal need to connect with others, especially those they care deeply about,” IDC researchers said.

“This coupled with mass market adoption of smartphones means that social engagement via phones has become mainstream.”

At a TechCrunch Disrupt conference in San Francisco in September, Facebook co-founder Mark Zuckerberg said the social network giant is focused on mobile devices.

“It is really clear from the stats and my own personal intuition that a lot of energy in the ecosystem is going to mobile, not desktop (computers),” Zuckerberg said during an on-stage interview.

“That is the future,” he continued. “We are going to be doing killer stuff there.”

Facebook has made a priority of following its more than one billion members onto smartphones and tablet computers, tailoring services and money-making ads for mobile devices.

“Now, we are a mobile company,” Zuckerberg said at the conference.

Zuckerberg rejected suggestions that Facebook would make its own smartphone, adamant that the company had no intention of stepping into the fiercely competitive handset hardware arena.

“Apple, Google, everyone builds phones — we are going in the opposite direction,” Zuckerberg said at the time.

“We want to build a system deeply integrated in every device people want to use

Ladies: How To Trick Men Into Thinking You Have Big Bréasts

Instructions

Tricks to Enhance Your Bréasts

1

• Wear a push-up bra with lined cups to help boost your bréasts. Choose one with a firm strap that will help lift your bréasts from the front as you fasten it. You can also try twisting the part between the bra cups in order to squeeze your bréasts together, making them look bigger.

2

• Use makeup to make your bréasts look rounder and fuller. Prepare a blush that is the same shade as your skin tone. Brush your chosen shade onto the upper curving outline of your bréasts, using a thick brush. The stroke of your brush should be done in a side-to-side, wiper-like motion. Make sure to keep both sides even. Then get a thinner brush and apply a slightly lighter shade on the center (where your cleavage is), using up-and-down strokes. Experiment until you get the look you desire.

3

• Doll up with the right type of clothing. Go for tops that will accentuate your bréasts, such as tube tops. Tube tops not only show the fullness of your bréasts, but also throw emphasis onto your neckline and shoulders. Avoid tops with round and plunging necklines, as they will only make your bréasts look smaller.

4

• Put on a little weight. Bréasts are known to store fat, so flat bréasts will get fuller with a little added fat. But make sure to go slowly and keep your diet in balance, if you consider doing this method.

5

• Go invasive. Bréast implants are the fastest way to own a bigger set of bréasts. There is no need to cross your fingers and hope for it to work; it is an instant process that will surely enhance your bréast size. But be cautious when choosing the surgeon to handle your surgery. Pick the most experienced one to avoid complications. And, if you do opt for a cosmetic surgery, you'll need to save up a lot of money.

Rihanna Dumps Chris Brown For Hot New Rapper

Chrianna fans are in for a shock as the pop star has once again severed the relationship with Chris Brown and now dating star rapper, A$AP ROCKY.

According to reports by MediaTakeOut:

Her new boyfriend is . . .A$AP ROCKY!!! According to a ROCK SOLID MTO INSIDER, A$AP and Rihanna have been on tour together now for about a month - and they've FALLEN IN LOVE!!!

The insider told MediaTakeOut.com, "This isn't some fling, they're in love . . . cuddling, hanging out, everything." The insider continued, "I've never seen Rihanna so happy - even happier than when she was with Chris."

Hopefully, A$AP ROCKY knows how to defend himself or, even better, has a bunch of hired goons--er--competent security team similar to CB's to watch his back in the event of violence.

And that violence may occur soon, because, according to MTO's talkative source, Mr. Breezy knows what's happening, and he's not amused

Chris Brown Bans Rihanna’s Past Lovers From Their Wedding

Chris Brown is getting heavy-handed with Rihanna again – about a wedding they haven’t even announced.

The thug’s ordered her to ban her ex and support act A$AP Rocky from their big day even though he’s still to propose.

It’s part of his plan to bar all Rihanna’s old boyfriends – including rapper Drake and baseball player Matt Kemp. A source said: “Chris has told her it will drive him mad if exes are there.”

Chris dropped his biggest hint yet he’ll marry Rihanna by highlighting a tweet saying they’d walk up the aisle.

But snubbing A$AP will be sticky for Rihanna because he’s supporting her on tour.

And she’s been partying after gigs with the rapper which pals say is winding up Chris. Their last outing was at the Ten X club in Calgary, Canada, where A$AP and Rihanna added to the graffiti punters leave on the wall.

But the source added Rihanna has agreed to the ban if Chris’s ex, Vietnamese model KARRUECHE TRAN, is also barred.

The last time Chris had a go at one of Rihanna’s exes was when he bumped into Drake at a New York club and the place was trashed in a brawl.

A$AP will be hoping plastic glasses will be handed out at the reception if Rihanna manages to get him a wedding invite.